Believe in yourself every day

Believe in yourself every day

More and more people complain of a sense of meaninglessness in their lives. Also, often they don’t know how to explain that in a few words because it is accompanied by a deep sigh, abstracted views, and incomplete sentences that don’t explain what is going on. Often I notice that this nonsense comes from the fact that people no longer believe that we should try to live better because all is meaningless and doomed to failure. No one expects the desired results and effects.

What are the desired results and effects?

Often the answer is: “To be happy.”

What is happiness to you? No replies.

People often don’t know what actually makes them happy, and even less what should be done in order to experience happiness.

Our emotions are our essence

It’s a mistake when we think that happiness in life is constant and that happy people are always happy and have no problems. Often I notice euphoria and excitement in people, but it looks like these emotions just flashed and quickly extinguished, leaving no trace in them a positive nor sense of true happiness that such flashy moments exist in life and they are privileged to feel them.

Everything is somehow going superficially and no true essence. Perhaps this is due to the aforementioned sense of meaninglessness or it is something else.

Too many people dealing with logic and tactics, and the lack of emotional part of your and other people’s personalities. My opinion is that emotions are our essence, our driver.

When we learn to recognize our emotions, we will know how to react and behave in accordance with them.

No one can live our lives

When we lose someone who has been part of our lives and with us almost every day, that is sensed sadness, fear, suffering, disappointment.

Against such emotions cannot be fought, they are an integral part of our lives and without them, we would not know what we’re truly happy moments. It takes the time to come up with the sad facts and it should not be to suppress.

It‘ll come a time when we all let go and actually feel the blessing that we were lucky that one person as the one we lost is part of our lives. Did I mention the word luck? Sure. From the greatest sorrow and pain, cognition is true joy and happiness.

To be emotionally mature need to accept yourself and to love ourselves. Only the love of self and introduce itself can make us emotionally mature. When we start to love and accept ourselves, we will not heed to others’ opinions and comments, and criticism of others we accepted as something we should think instead, although it will certainly our final judgment and our decision will be exclusively and in line with us.

No one can live our lives, nor make decisions for us, nor make it more meaningful and beautiful but only we. We should get our life as a gift from their parents. When we know that we were lucky at the very beginning of our lives and it is up to us to make it a nice trip that will be assembled from the ups and downs, but it will bring a lot of happiness and joy to us and to those who around us.

Morning coffee, breakfast and gratitude

Morning coffee, breakfast and gratitude

If you are lucky you grew up in a family where you hear the word “thank you” and where every new day is seen as a great treasure, then you will need this whole story to be fully known. If you have not had that opportunity, think about this and try to apply some of these “little dude” that can make an ordinary day especially nice because it does not one day is not an ordinary virtue of being unique.

When this powerful word found in your vocabulary with two more “please” and “sorry” you will see how beautiful life is and how much easier and facilitates communication with oneself and with others, smoothes conflicts, leaves a good impression on others, and creates respect for others towards you.

Why respect? Because the way you conduct and expression, in which you sincerely say “thank you” if someone held the door open when you enter the room, give you a compliment, help you to do something in business, give you the right company talking an hour or two funny and interesting stories, then tell him or her “thank you”, to set aside from others who view life as something that implies.

They come into this world, waiting to be life going on, and they will only be observers, still the commonest dissatisfied. Although this gives them the right to be critical and hate the other.

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When someone gives us something of themselves, that isn’t an unimportant thing, this is one of your shared experience. These are special moments that you and the other person connected even if only for a moment.

But why respect? Well, because primitive people don’t know how to be grateful. Likewise, those for which we can say that they are “bad people”.

Of course, we all have a light and a dark side, it’s bad and good moments, but people who are trying to be good they will nurture its positive side personalities, to do is to make it even whiter and brighter and on that dark side of the personality, they will also invest a lot of effort that it doesn’t overcome and reinforce them.

When you find yourself in the company of people who are envious, empty in its essence, without any personal satisfaction, without the possibility of truly loving another person, you’ll notice how your good behavior and a positive attitude towards life in them creates the discomfort.

First, if you observe, they look for error, dishonesty, and falsehood for your kind words. When they are not found, then they will try to remarks and provocations, give you credit “to get down to their level,” which is certainly lower than yours.

When this doesn’t succeed, if they have the opportunity, especially if you work closely, for example, the business will try to make unrealistic with unclear requirements, remarks or criticism, “put you on thin ice” to see your reaction, whether the ice under your foot start to shoot and you feel powerless. What they want to see… your weakness through anger, arrogance, primitivism, and bad manners.

Hmm… unfortunately, your dignity and good manners are an absolute part of you, so your response to their behavior is completely at your level, not on their lot that is under yours. From all over this situation, you will come out spotless and pristine.

Given that you are a person who works on your personal and professional development and see life as a marathon, which is long and sometimes hard, but who can be beautiful and interesting and one day you get to the finish line when the race finishes. you slowly calms the breath, the body relaxes, and on your lips is a smile. If you then look around you in the audience are all those people who have supported you in life and believed in you, and you’ll just tell them: “Thank you”.

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